I like to talk about my relationship a lot. It whats is most current in my life. Everything should be half and half. Romance works both ways. If the spark dies in a relationship its due to both peoples fault. failure to communicate with each other will doom it and when you are in a long distance relationship small thing become stuff you hold on too. I text my girlfriend a lot, just to show her that I think about her. We don’t have to have a conversation by any means. But when only I text saying “hey just thinking about you” or “I love you” it really feels like its one way. I asked her if she thinks of me when shes away and she replies of course I do. I believe it, but is it too much to ask her to return the favor. I want to know that she thinks about me. It takes 5 sec to text “I love you” or even “Just thinking of you”. been asking her to do it for awhile now and she still doesn’t do it. I don’t want to turn out just talking once a night like her exes. She says that won’t happen but I do think differently. I think I will just stop texting her those little moments when I think of her. When I ask for just a pic of her because I miss seeing her face for a bit she won’t and it adds up. It really seems like I am the only one that wants to keep the spark from going out. So I will just stop trying now. If the spark goes out It will not be because of me. Being a Romantic is a double bladed sword people be aware of it. (fyi when she texts complaining about something that doesn’t count.)
Do you think I am in the right?
